All of us want our elderly parents and relatives to be well cared for. Yet, despite the very best of intentions, we may be unable to do everything that is needed for our elders. Meeting an elder’s needs can be exhausting and lead to a sense of … [Continue reading]
An Advocate and an Ally
“Here’s your medicine, honey,” the nurse said as she handed Mrs. Smith her morning medicine. Mrs. Smith politely took the medicine and then turned to me and commented, “I’ve been taking that medicine for longer than she’s been alive.” Her nurse was … [Continue reading]
A Reason to Wake Up
“Did the staff tell you what you COULD do?” the nurse asked Leo as he outlined all the prohibitions given to him after suffering a stroke. Indeed, without assistance in how he might creatively adapt previous activities to his new physical … [Continue reading]
Power of Attorney for Health Care: Choosing Your Agent
The selection of an agent under the Power of Attorney for Health Care (POA) should be made with thought and care. The person you choose has a grave responsibility to act on behalf of an ill or elderly individual often under very difficult … [Continue reading]
When a Loved One is Hospitalized
1. Get to Know the Staff Will one nurse be consistently in charge of your elder’s care? If not, find out who will be coordinating care and the best time to call or meet with that person. While the physician manages the medical treatment, the … [Continue reading]
How to Talk to Medical Professionals
Even the most intelligent of us can become overwhelmed in an often-unwieldy health care system, in which a variety of consultants and specialists, tests and procedures demand attention and decisions. Most decisions do not need to be made urgently, … [Continue reading]
Holiday Tips for Families Visiting Elderly Relatives
After many months of separation, the holiday season brings families together to celebrate and catch up. For families with older relatives, it is an opportunity to check in and make sure that all is well. Using your visit to be a thoughtful observer … [Continue reading]